Emotional trauma happens as a result of any experience that leaves us feeling threatened, helpless and overwhelmed. Persistent trauma can result into post traumatic stress, anxiety and depression. Fortunately we can get over our trauma. Getting emotional and spiritual support immediately after realizing one is heading for a divorce (or after you’ve read this article) can dramatically decrease the possibility of developing traumatic symptoms.

These symptoms include feeling overwhelmed, helpless, distressed, scared, lacking confidence, low self-esteem and sadness. The healing stage will only start after we begin to deal with the symptoms of divorce. This may include self blame, fear of rejection and fear of failure, if we take things personally. The truth is that a lot of times, things didn’t just work out, it is not our fault.

We have to free ourselves from any negative mindset (way of thinking), developed as a result of divorce. Negative mindset can hinder our self-esteem confidence and wellbeing. When we lose our insecurity, by taking conscious steps to move on, we can start rebuilding our lives and self image. Then divorce will become a new start, as opposed to the end of our world.

9 Helpful Tips For Recovering From The Ex Factor:

1. Get over the blame game. It is doesn’t matter whose fault it is, blame is unproductive, it won’t bring the person back and it just causes more pain. We need to express our controlled anger, but we also have to move on emotionally. We must not repress our anger. This would only leads to hostility bitterness and resentment. Holding on to anger, is like holding on to emotional poison. We have to let go, or it will cause harm: Ephesians 4:26-27 - “Be angry, and do not sin”: do not let the sun go down on your wrath, nor give place to the devil.”
2. Forgiveness is the doorway to a new life of freedom. Bitterness weakens and destroys. Even though we are for unity, separation happens sometimes. The key to emotional freedom is forgiveness. Forgiveness is letting go of our ill feelings about a person, so that we can heal. It is not the same as reconciling, although it can lead to reconciling. Many people reconcile, or even become friends, after forgiveness and emotional healing. We need to pray for empowerment. God is our strength. He is able to make us whole again. By healing us, mentally, emotionally and spiritually: Psalm 46:1- “God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble.”
3. Divorce forces change on people. It requires learning new coping skills. This will involve renewing their way of thinking, as opposed to thinking like a couple. It needs emotional makeover: Romans
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   ion. Fortunately we can get over our trauma. Getting emotional and spiritual support immediately after realizing one is heading for a divorce (or after you’ve read this article) can dramatically decrease the possibility of developing traumatic symptoms.

   These symptoms include feeling overwhelmed, helpless, distressed, scared, lacking confidence, low self-esteem and sadness. The healing stage will only start after we begin to deal with the symptoms of divorce. This may include self blame, fear of rejection and fear of failure, if we take things personally. The truth is that a lot of times, things didn’t just work out, it is not our fault.

   We have to free ourselves from any negative mindset (way of thinking), developed as a result of divorce. Negative mindset can hinder our self-esteem confidence and wellbeing. When we lose our insecurity, by taking conscious steps to move on, we can start rebuilding our lives and self image. Then divorce will become a new start, as opposed to the end of our world.

   9 Helpful Tips For Recovering From The Ex Factor:

   1. Get over the blame game. It is doesn’t matter whose fault it is, blame is unproductive, it won’t bring the person back and it just causes more pain. We need to express our controlled anger, but we also have to move on emotionally. We must not repress our anger. This would only leads to hostility bitterness and resentment. Holding on to anger, is like holding on to emotional poison. We have to let go, or it will cause harm: Ephesians 4:26-27 - “Be angry, and do not sin”: do not let the sun go down on your wrath, nor give place to the devil.”
   2. Forgiveness is the doorway to a new life of freedom. Bitterness weakens and destroys. Even though we are for unity, separation happens sometimes. The key to emotional freedom is forgiveness. Forgiveness is letting go of our ill feelings about a person, so that we can heal. It is not the same as reconciling, although it can lead to reconciling. Many people reconcile, or even become friends, after forgiveness and emotional healing. We need to pray for empowerment. God is our strength. He is able to make us whole again. By healing us, mentally, emotionally and spiritually: Psalm 46:1- “God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble.”
   3. Divorce forces change on people. It requires learning new coping skills. This will involve renewing their way of thinking, as opposed to thinking like a couple. It needs emotional makeover: Romans
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      We have to free ourselves from any negative mindset (way of thinking), developed as a result of divorce. Negative mindset can hinder our self-esteem confidence and wellbeing. When we lose our insecurity, by taking conscious steps to move on, we can start rebuilding our lives and self image. Then divorce will become a new start, as opposed to the end of our world.

      9 Helpful Tips For Recovering From The Ex Factor:

      1. Get over the blame game. It is doesn’t matter whose fault it is, blame is unproductive, it won’t bring the person back and it just causes more pain. We need to express our controlled anger, but we also have to move on emotionally. We must not repress our anger. This would only leads to hostility bitterness and resentment. Holding on to anger, is like holding on to emotional poison. We have to let go, or it will cause harm: Ephesians 4:26-27 - “Be angry, and do not sin”: do not let the sun go down on your wrath, nor give place to the devil.”
      2. Forgiveness is the doorway to a new life of freedom. Bitterness weakens and destroys. Even though we are for unity, separation happens sometimes. The key to emotional freedom is forgiveness. Forgiveness is letting go of our ill feelings about a person, so that we can heal. It is not the same as reconciling, although it can lead to reconciling. Many people reconcile, or even become friends, after forgiveness and emotional healing. We need to pray for empowerment. God is our strength. He is able to make us whole again. By healing us, mentally, emotionally and spiritually: Psalm 46:1- “God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble.”
      3. Divorce forces change on people. It requires learning new coping skills. This will involve renewing their way of thinking, as opposed to thinking like a couple. It needs emotional makeover: Romans
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         ontrolled anger, but we also have to move on emotionally. We must not repress our anger. This would only leads to hostility bitterness and resentment. Holding on to anger, is like holding on to emotional poison. We have to let go, or it will cause harm: Ephesians 4:26-27 - “Be angry, and do not sin”: do not let the sun go down on your wrath, nor give place to the devil.”
      4. Forgiveness is the doorway to a new life of freedom. Bitterness weakens and destroys. Even though we are for unity, separation happens sometimes. The key to emotional freedom is forgiveness. Forgiveness is letting go of our ill feelings about a person, so that we can heal. It is not the same as reconciling, although it can lead to reconciling. Many people reconcile, or even become friends, after forgiveness and emotional healing. We need to pray for empowerment. God is our strength. He is able to make us whole again. By healing us, mentally, emotionally and spiritually: Psalm 46:1- “God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble.”
      5. Divorce forces change on people. It requires learning new coping skills. This will involve renewing their way of thinking, as opposed to thinking like a couple. It needs emotional makeover: Romans
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         a person, so that we can heal. It is not the same as reconciling, although it can lead to reconciling. Many people reconcile, or even become friends, after forgiveness and emotional healing. We need to pray for empowerment. God is our strength. He is able to make us whole again. By healing us, mentally, emotionally and spiritually: Psalm 46:1- “God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble.”
      6. Divorce forces change on people. It requires learning new coping skills. This will involve renewing their way of thinking, as opposed to thinking like a couple. It needs emotional makeover: Romans 12:2a - “Do not be conformed to this world (this age), [fashioned after and adapted to its external, superficial customs], but be transformed (changed) by the [entire] renewal of your mind [by its new ideals and its new attitude], (AMP)”
      7. Divorce is a good time for working on spiritual and emotional growth. We can turn our trauma to our triumph, by using it to grow. We must use this to seek God, who wants to help us, more: Psalm 121:1-2 - “I lift up my eyes to the hills—where does my help come from? My help comes from the LORD, the Maker of heaven and earth (NIV).”
      8. No experience is wasted. The time you spent together with the ex, is a gift. You can learn from the good and bad memories. All experiences have lessons they can teach us. We can use them to increase our chances next time. Denial just makes people stuck. They continue to repeat the same kind of mistakes, because they haven’t acknowledged their bad decision skills. We can’t change, learn or move on, unless we acknowledge and accept the need for change/growth.
      9. By taking special care of ourselves. We must focus on what is working in our lives, until we become emotionally healed. Our thoughts have strong impact on us. They can affect our feelings and wellbeing. We need choose careful what thoughts we allow in our mind. To become emotionally strong, we have to only allow only empowering thoughts and reject the negative ones, as the lie of the devil, in the name of Jesus: Philippians 4:8 - “Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things (NIV).
      10. We need to maintain our joy; else we become weakened on top of everything else. Everyday is a gift. That is why it is called the present (laughs): Nehemiah 8:10b - “This day is sacred to our Lord. Do not grieve, for the joy of the LORD is your strength (NIV)."
      11. By changing our bad habits and eliminating destructive patterns. Our thoughts usually become our speeches, while our speeches usually become our decisions and actions. Our decisions and actions usually become our habit, while our habits usually become our mentality. We must watch our patterns, less we create ones. We have to hold our negative thoughts and imaginations captive, by rejecting them in the name of Jesus: 2 Corinthians 10:5 - “casting down imaginations, and every high thing that is exalted against